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hollyhoppet wrote

Awkard, difficult, hard to keep it up. Probably dysphoric without me realizing it. My partner at the time had some really rough body image issues so I don't know if it was very great for them either.

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xifiesco wrote

Wow. So far everyone's first time was horrible.

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hollyhoppet wrote

Anectodally, I've found most people I've talked to about it have had a bad first time?

Like... it's just another one of those things that for some reason (probably institutional sexism in some way) is forbidden to talk about.