toasthaste

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I've had similar issues with earplugs, including waking up in the middle of the night because they were so painful-- I've definitely found some that were a lot less painful than others (maybe smaller? fancier? unsure) and if you make sure to put them in correctly (lift your ear upwards? i think the plugs usually have instructions) I think it can help. there's also silicone earplugs, which aren't nearly as good at blocking out sound but are different enough that they might not have the pain problem

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I feel like every once in a while I just uncomplicatedly manage to sleep on my back no problem, but the rest of the time it's impossible. no idea how to recreate the circumstances where I succeed

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yeah! I just got one of these like 2 weeks ago so i can sleep with ANC earbuds when the upstairs neighbors are stomping around in the wee hours of the got dang morning and it's been helpful.

for her new piercings, my roommate likes the cheaper one she got that looks like a donut with a bite taken out of it (I tried it but I'm so bad at sleeping and needed something more plush). it appears to have vanished from the face of the internet though so idk maybe it was full of poison or something

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c-could we have user avatars? 🥺 is that even possible....

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Yeah, I just finished Tunic recently and I absolutely never would have without the ability to customize the combat difficulty. I probably could have but I just flat out do not like the combat, so I would not have.

(the first time I tried the game it only had "no fail mode" and didn't have the "reduce combat difficulty" option, and having to choose between "this boss fight is miserably hard and unfun" and "this boss fight is completely trivial because you cannot die" was insufficient for me. Having medium options counts for a lot!

...huh I wonder how hard it would be to have an option that like... just slows bosses down? If you enjoy the idea of the combat but your reaction time is Just Too Slow to engage with it on its own terms, that seems like it could go a long way. tunic has something like this but it's an item. but I mean more generally for games that decide to have accessibility options. it seems like it might be easier to implement than some other things.

so many more people could have fun with dark soulsian games if this was an option, without it otherwise throwing off the game balance...

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Hi this is Daisy. Funky Kong you need to stop dancing around it and just tell Wario you want to sleep with him. Just ask if he's DTF already. This is getting embarrassing.

Anyway I'm off to write more filthy SasuNaru fanfic, good luck out there.

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calling my lawyers about this. you have made a big mistake you are going to regret this. justice for luigi

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you banned tghe single most sexual mario character i hope ur happy. ruining everything

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it is impossible that I have not heard many taylor swift songs given that store radios exist and also i spent quite a few years working at stores but i could not actually identify one and i think that is kind of epic of me

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yeah mood. I only just realized I could be using nitter to bypass login a few days ago! and now this 😔 back to just saying "hey I can't see the thread you're linking to can you screenshot it or something" on discord all the time i guess

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i think this is approximately a universal experience for anyone who has ever been 16

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I was just reading about this recently-ish, they got (or are soon getting? this isn't the article I saw the other day I couldn't find the exact one so hopefully this one is actually accurate idk) fuckin hella fast internet on the ISS, I wonder if that means it would be easy to get fast wifi on pluto too. You should find a better pluto-based ISP, I think you're getting ripped off

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you've been shadowbanned but the shadowban realm has lots of bots that will still interact with your posts so that you can't tell you've been shadowbanned (this is a lie but. oh jeeze I could actually see this happening on social media sites in the future)

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I've heard it's very good but my impression is that there are nearly no women in it, is that accurate? (this is often the deciding factor in me deciding to not watch animes that are otherwise supposed to be very good 😔)

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Yes! YESSS! I watched it a couple weeks ago and have been trying to get everyone I know to watch it since (no luck yet but I'm TRYING). It's so good and it's not like anything else I've seen and it gives me a lot of hope for adult western animation.

I kept expecting the rug to get pulled out from under me for some cheap gag every time the show got really slow and quiet and earnest and it just kept... not happening. Show gave me a lot of indescribable feelings, I think March Comes In Like A Lion might be the only other thing that comes to mind in the same brain-feelings-zone. Good good good show, I'm so glad it exists and that I watched it and that other people can watch it too

"Coming of age story where the protagonist is in her 40s" is like. Man!

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I am someone who is quite pro-EA in the sense of "charity donations can go a lot farther if you apply them thoughtfully, I love it when fewer children die from malaria", which in my mind is/should be the core Thing of EA, and I deeply deeply resent the AGI people sucking all the oxygen out of the room and torching piles and piles of goodwill the way they do. So please don't read the following as a defense of the AI doomers and longtermists, I find them very tedious and frustrating:

  1. The reason EA types don't tend to touch on climate change is because of its core Thing which is trying to find and address problems that are "important, neglected, and tractable". Stopping/reversing climate change is both Important* and Tractable, but it's really not Neglected-- there are tons of really really smart people working on it, it's far from low hanging fruit, and that means the floor for meaningfully contributing to those efforts is pretty high, diminishing returns and all; Altruism in this area will be less Effective. This is definitely a bullet to bite but I think it basically makes sense.

  2. I think EA was at one point trying to do stuff about nuclear threats? Maybe it still is, idk, my understanding was that it ended up really not being very tractable, like, how do you know you're reducing the overall threat of nuclear war and proliferation? What does that look like? The most tractable part of that that I can think of (getting existing nuclear weapons dismantled) is not very directly solvable with money, which is the primary tool EA uses (since the original point is making a donated dollar do as much good as possible)

  3. Now you might ask, well, how does AI extinction risk rank in important/neglected/tractable, I mean for one how tractable could "AI alignment" possibly be? To which the AI people will say "shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh"

* (The AI people will say it's not that important because climate change isn't going to drive humans extinct, let alone wipe out all life on earth/the galaxy the way they say AI will, it's just going to make lots of people die and make life worse for everyone who survives.)

Anyway even if EA never does anything tangibly good ever again (unlikely imo, the We Want Less Kids To Die From Malaria faction is still going strong), I think they at least get credit for GiveDirectly, which lets you give direct cash transfers to people living in extreme poverty around the world with no strings attached, so they get to decide where it's best spent, rather than someone half a world away dictating that to them. I highly recommend anyone and everyone donate money to GiveDirectly if they have some spare cash lying around.

In conclusion, sorry if you already knew all this or it's an illegible wall of text, it turns out I was in an infodumping mood, what can ya do.

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I'm gonna see it tomorrow! dubbed tho so hopefully that does not detract too much. i think it is very funny and good how robert pattinson only plays total freaks (just watched The Batman as well)

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yes yes yessss! I played the demo and was HOOKED. I really wanna play the full release but i feel like I should finish with bg3 first.... but bg3 is so much.....